What Happens in The DRK stays in The DRK
Dominants and Self-Doubt—Impostor Syndrome is a Little Bitch Sometimes… When I go out to play parties or socials, those who know me see that I have a certain “look” to how I present myself. I like to dress in a tie and vest. To me, there is something about that look that just shows ‘class’…
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In my last post, I shared how not understanding my own power led me to submit to someone who didn’t deserve it. I wanted to submit to someone so badly, I didn’t take into account what I was giving away. He took advantage of my kindness, my empathy, and my willingness to serve—because I didn’t…
“Confidence is sexy. Humility with confidence is downright panty dropping (or so I have been told)” ~ Carmina_Burana Hello there. My style of writing may not be everyone’s cup of tea, nor the ‘ideal’ blog post set up. I am simply a person who has had some experiences within the community that have allowed me…
Clichés in Kink vs. Reality Mainstream media loves a good kink fantasy. You’ve seen it—the domineering, mysterious billionaire and the wide-eyed, naive young woman who’s “never done anything like this before.” He gives her a list of rules, buys her a mansion, and proceeds to spank her into enlightenment. Cue the dramatic music and designer…