If you don’t understand your own power, how can you submit it to someone else? This is a question I wish I had asked myself a long time ago. Because I’ve learned—through painful experience—that when you don’t truly know your own power, someone else can recognize it before you do… and use it against you. […]
Tag: Reality
Conflicts and Resolutions: Getting along in the Community
Stay in any one place long enough, with enough people, and eventually there will be a conflict. The kink community is no exception to this rule. In fact, I would venture to say that the kink community gives rise to conflict more often than most other communities simply due to the nature of our existence. […]
Tittie Tuesdays or Not
Clichés in Kink vs. Reality Mainstream media loves a good kink fantasy. You’ve seen it—the domineering, mysterious billionaire and the wide-eyed, naive young woman who’s “never done anything like this before.” He gives her a list of rules, buys her a mansion, and proceeds to spank her into enlightenment. Cue the dramatic music and designer […]