What Happens in The DRK stays in The DRK
In my last post, I shared how not understanding my own power led me to submit to someone who didn’t deserve it. I wanted to submit to someone so badly, I didn’t take into account what I was giving away. He took advantage of my kindness, my empathy, and my willingness to serve—because I didn’t…
If you don’t understand your own power, how can you submit it to someone else? This is a question I wish I had asked myself a long time ago. Because I’ve learned—through painful experience—that when you don’t truly know your own power, someone else can recognize it before you do… and use it against you….
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Clichés in Kink vs. Reality Mainstream media loves a good kink fantasy. You’ve seen it—the domineering, mysterious billionaire and the wide-eyed, naive young woman who’s “never done anything like this before.” He gives her a list of rules, buys her a mansion, and proceeds to spank her into enlightenment. Cue the dramatic music and designer…